"Is there really any other reason than me?"

Here is Integrity, Action and Community at work, creating great things.

After you read this, ask yourself, "...is there really any other reason than me...?"

Read the question posed to TV personality, Mike Rowe and then his reply...

Mike,
I'm not sure where I heard that you are an Eagle Scout, which brings me to my question. Could you PLEASE take a moment & post to my 13 year old son Kelby & encourage him to finish scouting (& anything else that'll help with this?) Reason I'm asking is that he only lacks 1 1/2 - 2 years in reaching Eagle, but some of his buddies have got him to thinking scouting isn't cool at his age.
Thanks much, Gary --

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Kelby,

Your Dad asked me to drop you a line and say something inspirational that might persuade you to dig down deep and find the determination to make the rank of Eagle Scout. It's a reasonable request, from a father who obviously wants to see his son succeed. But here’s the thing - The Eagle Award is not really meant for people who need to be dragged across the finish line. It’s meant for a select few, and I have no idea if you have the guts to see it through.

Statistically, I suspect you do not. Only one out of a hundred Scouts make Eagle, so if you fail, there will be lots of other people with whom you can share excuses. Quitting now might disappoint your Dad, but I doubt that he or anyone else will be overly surprised. Anytime 99 out of 100 people do the same thing, it’s not exactly a shock.

I’m not trying to be cute with a bunch of reverse psychology. When I was 15, there was nothing that anyone could have said to me that would have inspired me to do something I didn't want to do, especially a stranger with a TV show. So I’m not going to assume you’re any different, or pretend that I have some influence or insight that you haven’t already heard from a dozen other people who actually know and care about you. I’ll just tell you straight up, that doing something extraordinary can be very lonely, and most people simply aren’t cut out for it. Being an Eagle Scout requires you to be different than most everyone around you, and being different is really, really hard. That’s why the award is called “an accomplishment.”

Personally, and for whatever it’s worth, the best decisions I've made in my own life, are those decisions that put me on the outside of being cool. Singing in the Opera, working in home shopping, staring in the school play when the entire football team laughed at me, and especially earning my Eagle, were all choices that required sacrifice, hard work, and delayed gratification. I have no idea if you possess those qualities, or even envy them. But I can tell you for certain, that NOT getting your Eagle, will be one of the easiest things you’ve ever done.

Anyway, I have no idea if you would prefer an easy life of predictability and mediocrity, or if have the passion to follow the road less traveled. Only you get to decide that.

Good Luck,
Mike

This Memorial Day weekend I had the great pleasure of attending the Eagle Scout Court-of-Honor for my nephew, in Dallas, Texas. His speech was remarkable for it's prescience...

First, I want to thank all of you for coming today. I know that for all of us it is incredibly difficult to wake up so early, especially on a day that we have off. But we have a wonderful breakfast waiting for you.

I just want to say how honored I am to have this bestowed upon me. Many times throughout the last 6 years I told myself a million times, “Just give up. It’s impossible. It’s too hard. You’ll never make it.” And although this went through my mind quite a bit, I never really gave up hope. I knew I had time. Although I had this time, I wanted to finish as quickly as possible. When I first crossed over in March of 2003, I told myself that I wanted to be an Eagle Scout before I entered high school. That was my goal. Freshman year came and went, and I still had not achieved it. But I did not stop trying. I kept pushing, even at times when I did not want to, and that made all the difference.

To the younger scouts: you may have time. You’re 11, 12, 13 years old. Many years lie ahead of you on your scouting journey, but do not wait to take action. Be proactive. Do all that you can to progress, it truly does help. Before you enter high school, do everything in your power to progress as far as you can. Do not necessarily become an Eagle before high school, because, as I learned, it is a horrendously difficult task, but take your game to the next level. Earn the two more merit badges that you have partials on. Finish your swimming requirements. All of these little things that you may have the time for now CAN and WILL fade into the background as your coursework picks up and you become more involved in your community. I guarantee it will happen. It is far easier to work now, instead of later. Achieving the Eagle rank is extremely difficult in and of itself, as some of you will find soon enough, but if you approach the process in the wrong way, you can make it nearly impossible.

In light of all this, do not limit this attitude to just scouts. Be proactive in all that you do. Work, THEN play. Not the other way around. Keep your priorities straight and your focus on your goals. Finish your math homework, and then go watch a little TV. I can assure you, hard work and focus are the keys to success. It is neither skill nor natural born ability. Keep striving, do your best, and never give up.

It took me a long time to get where I am today, and I can honestly say that without many people I never would have made it....

It is clear that Integrity, Community and Action were at work here and it is clear where Community can work against us as hard as we will let it.

As the new Eagle Scout says, "...hard work and focus are the keys to success..."

Were you inspired? How did/will you overcome the innumerable excuses that will come to mind when the going gets tough?

Let this community know. Here's a safe place to get support for your plans and goals. What type of people are in your community, in general? Do they think of ways to support you or are they quicker to justify the obstacles?

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